I was fresh out of college, having just earned my undergraduate degree, and had taken a job working professionally. I was so excited; finally, I had a big job, and I knew I would rock it. On my first day, my boss took me out to lunch, just me and her. I was flattered but wondered why the rest of the department didn’t come. It would have felt more welcoming if the entire department had been there. We were a small department; there were only four others, so I was confused about why they couldn’t come too. We didn’t go to a super fancy place; it was a bar. I didn’t go to bars then, and it’s still rare that I do. Anyway, from what I remember, the food was okay. During our lunch, she talked badly about the woman I replaced. This was a big red flag for me. I immediately knew that I did not like her character because if she could talk poorly about this person, who was still employed at the company, what was she going to say about me? A few months later, she began having trouble with anot...